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Greys Go Away!

The worst thing happened to be this morning. Bleary eyed as I applied my makeup my eyes drifted northward toward my hair line, when gasp I saw them! My pesky, inhospitable grey's were back...again! An unfortunate symptom of stress (or that's what I chalk it up to) I started sprouting a few grey's in my teens. In my early twenties it only got worse. So bad that someone, who in their dire attempt to hit on me, had the audacity to ask my age. When I responded 23, he started laughing and said "No seriously." Apparently my handful of greys lent the appearance of someone much senior. As I've gotten older, I've become uber diligent in touching up my roots in between professional color service. But this morning there was no time or energy to color my roots so I reached in my beauty arsenal...

And out came my Avon Advanced Techniques Grey Root Touch-Up. Think of it as mascara for your hair, this magic wand covers ever last grey with ease and precision. A mega wand oddly reminiscent of Dior's Show mascara, grabs hair and coats with color. No clumps or bumps, the color is deposited smoothly without any traces. It's invisible! A blind eye or random from the bar will never be able to tell. The most life-saving part is the color does not budge until you shampoo! So it provides continually coverage that does not rub or wipe off (no traces on your pillow!) until you wash. This is the little black dress for hair and at a mere $8 I like to think of it as my hair savior. Available in two shades, black and brunette, this is a must have for all my silver haired ladies.

Usage tip: Make sure to hold hair taut as you run the wand over it and use light brushing strokes to coat greys evenly. This helps ensure a clean application.

The result: Bye, bye greys! I'm guessing I look 10 years younger now!

Gadgets

I'm a gadgety, accessory type of gal. I believe that there's no such thing as too many lipglosses (not to mention shoes, handbags and scarves for that matter) and I cannot fathom leaving home without my iPad. So when I discovered the newest hair accessory of our generation, a truly game changing gadget that is so intuitive I wondered how I didn't come up with it. Then with great reside I made room in my arsenal for one more toy!

Oddly reminiscent of a corkscrew and shaped like a DNA strand, the Goody Simple Styles Spin Pin must have been conceived after one tough week, a comforting bottle of Bordeaux and perhaps some lovin'. The double helixed shaped pin discreetly holds hair in place and is absolutely effortless. You simply gather hair as desired (eg. bun, french twist or half updo) and secure with one or two pins. Within mere seconds hair is styled for all day hold (my hair stayed in place even through a spin class!) and convenience. But my favorite part is the lack of pain or discomfort from having a pin pressed against my scalp. These pins almost disappear, sparing your tender scalp from jarring pain. Available in two colors a bronze intended for brunettes and a golden for blondes these pins and packaged by two, they are now in your local drugstore or Target! I'm stocking up as we speak. And for the record I don't believe in rules so wear both colors....there's nothing more flattering than having a hair adornment that contrasts with your hair.

Usage tip: To pull up your entire hair use both pins, one from the top and the other from the bottom of the updo. Half updo's require only one. Make sure to never cross the pins as it can be quite difficult to get out. To secure the pin turn it clockwise and to remove twirl it counterclockwise (it's literally like operating a corkscrew so it should be a natural gesture for my oenophiles).

The result: Whether it's an elegant, polished bun or a haphazardly thrown together updo these pins will be your new bff!

Humbling

There's nothing more humbling than being proven wrong. Case in point, swearing up and down that you absolutely positively put away your favorite necklace back in the jewelery box. In fact you're so sure that you've decided some phantom jewelry thief must have come in the middle of the night, snuck undetected past the 3 dead bolts and took this prized piece. Of course after turning the apartment upside down with fraught anxiety you realize (oops!) that you left it in your purse when it was your turn to stay at "his place". Definitely humbling!

So when a bump with a white head appeared on my face I decided it absolutely must be a pimple. A whitehead to be exact. Fast forward to three weeks of blemish clearing products, steam and attempted extractions when I realized that this "breakout" was not budging. And then it dawned on me. This isn't a whitehead! It's a milia! I know what you're thinking...a whata? Milia, sometimes referred to do as baby acne since they are commonly found in infants, occurs when dead skin cells become trapped in the pores causing clogging. The white bumps almost look cyst-like and are resistant to any acne treatment medication. Attributed to poor exfoliation, common culprits include heavy skincare products, sun damage causing epidermal thickening thereby inhibiting proper exfoliation and even genetics. Unfortunately milias are not something that can be "popped" or extracted at home. If you try you risk scarring that beautiful face. Instead pay a visit to your aesthetician or dermatologist who will open the milia with a sterile lancet or needle and extract the oily content. This should not be tried at home as you risk puncturing the milia incorrectly or infecting the area. One visit, a few minutes later and that nagging "whitehead" is gone!

Usage tip: Of course with the proper care you can avoid milias all together by gently exfoliating regularly. Whether you cleanse with the Clarisonic, manually slough with a facial polish or even do a mild glycolic peel you will help prevent dead skin cells from lingering and trapping pores. Remember gentle exfoliation. Overdoing it will cause a whole host of other problems.

The result: A small reminder that you're not always right!

Fashion's Night Out

The fashion queen, Anna Wintour, may inspire a lot of controversy. Is she really the Devil Wears Prada? Or perhaps a more discontent soul as glimpsed in The September Issue. One thing she is, is creatively brilliant. Case in point the multi-country, continent-hopping shopping party known as Fashion’s Night Out. A brainchild of Wintour’s, these Halloween meets News Year’s event did not fail for the second consecutive year. Hundreds of retailers opened their doors, hosting exclusive perks from supermodel assisted photo shoots to complimentary Shake Shack burgers. And the house of Chanel took this special evening to do what it does the best. Launch their fall’s destined for cult status nail polish palette.

Billed as exclusive for Fashion’s Night Out, the iconic brand introduced not just one polish but three! Inspired by all things khaki Chanel’s Creative Director, Peter Philips, interpreted the globally relevant hue in three ways. Khaki Vert builds on the success of the green hued polish movement (remember Chanel's Jade?) but with an added relevancy of sophisticated military flair. The mossy, foam green shade sold out in a mere 45 minutes at the Chanel boutique and inspired ladies to stand in hour long lines for a complimentary manicure. Khaki Rose is more feminine, approachable shade with hints of pinky, earth clay. The most organic shade of the collection, it is perfect for those who prefer a more sensible color. And finally my favorite! Khaki Brun is a breath of fresh air to the overplayed greige shades of Spring. A new, more tastemaking generation, this complex shade evolved in different lights. In dim lit settings it reads a creamy mocha while the sun brings out undertones of olive and bark. While the collection was billed as a one night exclusive, Chanel is making them available to all for a limited time on their website. These colors won't last long so start clicking away to fall nails (they're already on EBay for a mere $135! Outrageous).

Usage tip: If you're bold and edgy enough do as Chanel recommends and paint nails with all 3 in an alternating pattern.

The result: Truly exclusive fall colors from the king pin of nail polishes with no wannabe versions in sight.

Fall Ball

You can almost feel the shift. September rolls around and within the first few days the air becomes crisp, the day’s suddenly become shorter and sandals become replaced with the requisite ballet flats. Inevitably we come to the realization that summer is slipping way and we must usher in fall. As we prepare for the new season with wardrobe updates (side note: was everyone disappointed with the September fashion issues as I was? Total let down after lugging around those 10 pound magazines!) we must also “fall-ize” our skin, hair and nails in an effort to recover and recuperate from the summer damage.

The 5 Ways to Beautify for Fall:
1.Revive lackluster hair color!
Sun, chlorine and sea water breaks down color pigments leaving a brassy or in some cases green tinge. Banish brasiness with Aveda Blue Malva Shampoo (you need blue or purple-toned shampoos to neturalize the reddish tones). Restore color vibrancy with a DIY gloss treatment. Fekkai and Nice N' Easy have great glazes. To enhance color try a color depositing shampoo. Look for one that is in your shade range.

2. Restore softness!
The same culprits mentioned above can also strip and dehydrate hair making your strands feel more straw-like than baby soft. Quench your hair with mega moisture. Apply a moisturizing, strengthening hair mask (I like Kerastase Nutridefense Treatment) on wet, clean hair from mid-length to ends. Wrap hair and cover with a plastic shower cap. Quickly heat hair by running your hair drier over the shower cap. Make sure to leave 2-3” distance between the cap and the nozzle to avoid a meltdown situation! The heat helps “seal” the active hydrators. Leave the mask on for 20-30 minutes then rinse.

3. Shed the snakeskin!
Have you ever noticed that by the end of summer your skin starts to take on a leathery appearance? Not only does the sun dehydrate skin but it also causes the skin to thicken (a natural protective mechanism against UV rays). Slowly skin’s natural radiance and glow are muddied away. Not to fear, with some careful exfoliation your skin will be bounce right back. After cleansing, slough off dead cells by using a body exfoliating cream. I like Kiehl’s Crème de Corps Soy Milk and Honey Body Polish. Up the ante and use a dry brush to help enhance the exfoliation! For the face I recommend Freeze 24*7 IceCrystals Anti-Aging Prep & Polish. On a clean face work the exfoliator in small circular motions. Don’t apply too much pressure or you will irritate the skin and cause microtears.

4. Restore the porcelain! Noticing a few more freckles or even dark spots that were never there? Not uncommon if you've spending time in the sun which causes an increased production of melanin. Break up these unevening clusters with a brightening treatment. I swear by Skinceuticals Pigment Regulator. Apply over dark spots twice daily and use SPF everyday (even if you're office bound!). This will not only prevent new spots but discourage the existing ones from darkening.

5. Buff away!
Just like your skin, your nails need a little resurfacing, brightening action. After soaking your nails in a warm water with lemon juice (half a lemon for hands and a whole lemon for feet), take a nail buffer and exfoliate the top layers of your nails. Keep your fingers polish free for a few days so they can breathe!

Usage tip: You may need to repeat some of the treatments above to get the best results. Use the hair mask once a week, exfoliate twice weekly and of course the step 4 is twice a day for at least 4 week commitment!

The result: Now you're ready for fall!

Summer Love

There are so many delightful things about summer. And despite the fall-like weather NYC has been experiencing as of late (and the fact that my office feels like Antarctica making me look like a bodyless mummy as I bury myself in sweaters, scarves and jackets) I think it’s good to walk down the summer memory lane. There’s of course the long days ensuring that you get to at least see the sun as you make your way home from work. Weekends spent poolside, beachside or bbqside. And who doesn’t love Sunday night ice cream? Of course like all things there are some less than positive side effects of summer: sun parched hair, callused feet and perhaps a few breakouts in places you never thought possible.

Yes as the weather warms up your oil glands go into overdrive causing unwanted pimples not only on the face but also the body like arm, back, etc. And like all cruel ironies in life it’s still summer so you want to be able to flaunt it not hide in layers of clothing. Not to fear there’s a solution: breakout fighting body wash like Neutrogena Body Clear Body Wash in Pink Grapefruit. Like all body washes it cleanses and refreshes skin but this body wash works one level deeper with the power of salicylic acid, a beta hydroxyl acid that helps break the bonds between dead skin cells to exfoliate and unclog pores. As you energize your senses with naturally derived grapefruit extract and brighten skin with vitamin C, the body wash cuts through oil and pore clogging aggressors without stripping skin. After a few washes, skin is visibly softer, smoother and breakout free!

Usage tip: Remember to exfoliate your skin weekly with an actually body scrub and to help boost the mechanical exfoliating action use a loofah or brush.

The result: No more red, bumpy spots on that sun-kissed, toned arm as you show off your new strapless sun dress without needing a cover up sweater!

Caring for Beauty

Oddly enough in my family I’m known as the “tech” person. The person mom calls when she makes the jump from a cell phone to a blackberry. The person who’s supposed to know the magic button that makes the new flat screen go from wide screen to full screen… over the phone. And the “go to girl” who installs and sets up new electronic toys in under 30 minutes. So you can only imagine the irony when I received a supped up juicer, decided to not waste my time reading the manual and instead start juicing! Well it only took me 5 minutes to blow the poor little machine up! What a humbling reminder that no matter how much of an expert you may be it’s not a blow (literally!) to the ego to just brush up on the “how to’s.”

When it comes to the world of beauty we often discard the box with the instructions and prefer a roll up your sleeve and do it attitude. This may work sometimes but it’s the finer print on the box detailing how you should use and care for your products to maintain maximum efficacy for the best results. Since I know all your beauty instruction boxes are in a recycling center somewhere (yes all boxes, bottles, tubes and jars are recyclable so please do your part to be eco-fficient) I thought it would be good to review the fundamentals.

Top 3 Ways You Should be Caring for your Beauty Products:

1.Close the cap!

Basic, right? Well in the wee hours of the work day morning or after an exhausting evening it may seem too challenging to full screw the cap or to firmly close the flip top but if you don’t you risk “deactivating” your precious product. Some products contain air sensitive ingredients like retinoids or vitamin C and if the formula is exposed to oxygen the ingredients oxidize rendering them inactive. So rather than apply “dead” cream night after night thinking your skin is becoming ageless just close the cap

2. Keep it cool!

What happens when you don’t keep your produce, dairy or veggies in a cool, refrigerated environment? It goes bad! Well the same logic applies for your beauty products. Hot, steamy showers don’t equal efficacious products. Instead extreme temperatures can cause the product to “age” faster and inevitably lose it’s mojo. So store your products in a dry, room temperature (no higher than 67 degrees). If you’re an over achiever and want extra credit, store your products in the fridge to maintain their freshness (side note I keep my nail polishes there too!).

3. Know the age!

Some time sensitive products like sunscreens or retinoids are labeled with expiration dates. Be sure to adhere to these dates because not only does an expired product not work but you risk experiencing an allergic reaction to the spoiled formula. If you’re product does not have an expiration date then look on the back panel for the open jar symbol. That tells you how long the product will remain active after opening.

Usage tip: While you’re getting refresher in caring for your beauty products why not also glance through the 101’s of beauty care.

The result: Now at least you will be using products that “do something” and deliver on their advertised promises.

Science 101

Let's take it back...back in the day (if you can recall from what song that is I would be impressed!). So here's the scenario: you're back in your sweet sixteens, just finished lunch break where you were trying to catch the attention of your new crush and now it's time for the buzz kill...science class! Mrs. Hall is going on and on about something called pH which determines acidity or alkaline value and all you can think is who cares and when the hell can I get out of here and study something that I care about like how to become rich by doing nothing! If only you knew that fateful science class held the key to keeping your skin ageless.

Yes you read that right. I had the privilege to attend a meet and greet with Dr. Jeannette Graf, a renowned dermatologist in Nyc who has authored "Stop Aging, Start Living: The revolutionary 2 week pH diet that erases wrinkles, beautifies skin and makes you feel fantastic." Dr. Graf's exhaustive work has led her to the conclusion that to maintain and promote healthy cellular function the pH of your cells must be kept at 7.4 (another words slightly basic). The problem is many of our dietary habits; sugars, refined carbs, meats and dairy, serve as breeding ground for an acidic environment. Excess acidity leads to the breakdown of collagen and elastin which, like a domino effect, causes wrinkling and sagging. To rectify this imbalance Dr. Graf recommends balancing each acidic amount with three alkalinizing foods such as dark, leafy greens, fruit, nuts and whole grains topped off with proper amount of H2O! Manage your stress and make sure to take a moment each day to practice your yoga breaths. These small changes discourage a build up of acidity and besides the anti-aging benefits will make a more all round relaxed individual. So put down the bberry, grab a summer peach and enjoy your summer weekend. Your skin will thank you!

Usage tip: To help monitor your progress buy pH testing strips. Each morning test your saliva (the strip should turn a dark blue color) to help ensure your the effectiveness of your lifestyle changes.

The results: A happier you and as Dr. Graf promises 5 years of aging erased overnight!

Model Life

Do you know what the sign of a well executed marketing campaign is? Let me paint the picture for you. Imagine a typical weekday lunch break. You’re flipping through the latest edition of your favorite magazine as your eyes glaze over another “how to lose 5 pounds this week!” article and as you turn the page you stop. Mesmerized by the ad in front of you, you are suddenly transformed. A rush of visuals comes to you as you become enthralled with the model starring from the pages. From her cool pied-a-terre to the way she sips her coffee, every aspect of the character’s life unfolds in front of you. You can imagine the plush bed she wakes up in and the way with just a few brushes her hair effortlessly is styled. Everything from the iconic trench she sports to her signature fragrance flashes in front of your eyes. And for once in your adult life you feel a slight tinge of envy. You want to be her! You want to be that cool, “in the know” girl. And gosh darn it why can’t you be if you simply buy the makeup being featured in the ad… That ladies and gentlemen is a successful ad!

Compliments of Christopher Bailey might I add. Sir Christopher, better known as the creative director of Burberry, has once again reinvented the way ladies look by launching a 96 piece cosmetic line for the iconic house. Complete with everything you would need to look British cool, the line consists of foundations, shadows, lipsticks, glosses, mascaras and blushes (just to name a few!). Inspired by all things English from the weather to the insatiable glow of girl's skin, this range is the iconic trenchcoat's answer for the face (the foundation shades are aptly named Trench No.1 through Trench No. 9). Remembering all the details, the iconic plaid is emblazed in the compacts and lipsticks so you can feel like the complete Burberry girl. But the absolute best part is the colors! Complimentary to all skin tones, the shades flush the skin with a healthy rosiness and accentuate the wearer's natural beauty. Suddenly the colors of your eyes pop by the supporting role of the khaki, slate gray and taupe hues. Remember this is about effortless, translucent beauty. Sold exclusively at Nordstorm's.

Usage tip: Effortless equals minimalist. Apply these colors with a light hand and let your skin's natural glow pop through. Take time and work with counter's makeup artist to find your palette.

The result: Remember that model who paid for that ad? Well guess what she wants to be you!

Innocent Days

Every once in awhile it’s nice to blow caution to the wind and embrace your inner child. Afterall the days of summer camp, ice cream trucks and making forts were composed of innocence and simplicity. Why get done up in a strapping Shift dress and high heels when you can run around the backyard barefoot with your sundress whipping around your legs? Ahh those truly were simpler times and for Spring/Summer fashion’s big designers seemed to find something enviable in it too! From Miu Miu to Alexander Wang strategically disheveled side braids ruled the runway.

The look is less “perfect ballerina tightly woven braids” and more inspired by that carefree child who spent the day running around the backyard. Scruffier than its original counterpart, these braids should reflect a rougher texture and matte finish (it’s time to put down the shine enhancing serums!). Backstage stylists would tease strands and treat them with dry shampoo to get that matte grittiness before braiding. Remember this look is all about the imperfect. Hair should be deeply parted to the side or not parted at all for that “too cool for school look.” Start the braid at the nape of the neck and continue to a side. Once your braid is complete, secure with a clear band (no ribbons or bright hair ties please!) and then gently rough up the braid so it captures that disheveled, tousled look. Ideal for managing hair in high, humid temps, this style has equal parts playground innocence and rolled around the bed naughtiness.

Usage tip: Hair too short to muster a braid? With the help of V-shaped pins and a faux pony you can add your own extensions for the needed length. Just remember to rough up and tease the braid after securing it to your hair.

The result: Remember running around the schoolyard as the boys chased you for an opportunity to pull one of those braids? Ahh that was puppy love!

Bronze the Right Way!

So we covered the art of creating the beach bronze look in Monday's post but I'm sure you noticed that one key body part was omitted! Selecting and applying a facial bronzer is a science to say the least. Just the other day I noticed a girl who was not so familiar with this expertise. Her face looked not bronze but dirty, as if she hadn't washed her face in quite a long time. And the worse part was the "sun kissed look" stopped abruptly at her jawline leaving the eye wondering about what happened to her pale decollete and arms.

So in hopes of avoiding this serious faux pas I think it's important to understand the 101's of facial bronzing.

Rule 1: Pick the right color!
Your color should 2-3 shades darker than your natural skin tone. Fair skin tones should look for beige shades with a touch of warmth with rosy gold/peach undertones. Olive skin tones like myself should opt for brown bronzers with gold undertones (I use MAC Bronzing Powder in Bronze). Darker skin tones should use rich use rich bronze with hints of orange or apricot. On a side note I'm a bigger fan of pressed powders than loose one. I think they're easier to apply and control color deposit (a key to not looking dirty!)

Rule 2: Apply it the right way!
Using a fluffy powder brush (it helps evenly apply the color with a more a dispersed stroke) lightly dust the areas on your face that the sun would hit and naturally tan. Another words apply along your hairline, on the bridge of your nose, above the brows and on top of your cheek bones. Placement is key for believablity...I know you're saying "duh" but trust me some people still don't understand the concept of less is more!

Rule 3: Always apply in natural light!
Lighting is key to the application. Bronzing in dim lighting and you risk over doing it. So always apply in the brightest indoor lighting you can find to help mimic the effect of sunlight. It's
best to apply in front of a full or half body mirror so you can gauge the bronzing effect in relation to the rest of your body's skin tone. Remember there's nothing worse than a "bronze mask" effect!

Usage tip: Like all good things in life moderation is key. Always apply with light, gliding strokes. Remember you can build more color but it's harder to de-bronze. Matte powders are preferred to avoid a "greasy" look but once you become an expert you can start weaving in a slight shimmer on key areas (read: bridge of nose, brow and cheek bones). I love MAC Mineralize Skinfinish in Gold Deposit.

The result: No faux Louis' for you! You've mastered the art of bronzing!

Short Cuts

Have you heard the saying "it's not how hard you work but how smart you work?" Yes you can play by the books and take the brown nosing route...Or you can get a bit clever, cut a few corners and get to the end destination in a faster, more efficient way. Think Mercedes CLS versus the Honda Accord. So when it comes to the bronzed, sun kissed look you can be the good girl and reside yourself to the policy that no matter how Gisele-esque the tan may look there is absolutely no way you would ever consider frolicking in the sun… so white and pasty it is! Or you may play the street smart route and admit to yourself that “I just got back from a beach vaca” look is desirable and more importantly attainable. With the right know how and savviness your bronze goddess look is a bottle and a few strokes away sans (that’s without in Français of course!) sun damage or premature UV induced wrinkles.

Courtesy of MAC you can be your own Monet and blend your way to sun kissed status with their Face and Body Foundation. A water-resistant, sheer fluid this product provides natural looking coverage while hydrating and conditioning skin with an emollient blend. A staple in every makeup artists’ bag, this foundation-like (but really more tinted moisturizer) gives a professional, air brushed finish and more importantly it does not budge so you can fake your way all day long. Opt for shades like C7 Warm Caramel or N7 Warm Bronze to recreate the tan look. Apply a nickel size amount to arms and legs with a stroking motion being sure to provide even coverage without any patchiness. You can even paint your way to definition and authenticity by paying special attention to those areas that are more prone to being sun kissed like the shoulders or front of arms. Versatile and life/skin saving, there’s a reason that sales of this product are up 38% this year! And I’m guessing will only continue climbing higher.

Usage tip: All smart girls love a little shimmer so mix the foundation with a loose luminescent powder like Laura Mercier Shimmer Loose Powder in Sun Dust and Star Dust (look at what it does for your cleavage!) and then apply. Think Victoria Secret annual lingerie fashion show bronze!

The result: Those minis and short shorts were made for bronze gams, not vampire skin!

Beam Me Up!

I'm pretty sure I've already told you the story of my first waxing experience, but here's a quick recap.Terrified and unwilling to get out of the car in the parking lot of the salon my mom leveled and shared what has come to serve as my mantra toward all the odd and uncomfortable beauty rituals. She said "It hurts to look beautiful." And with that the excruciating pain from my first underarm wax became the discomfort of a brow threading appointment to the needle pricking sensation of acid peels and who can forget the brow sweating Brazilian appointments? So it was only a matter of time I succumbed to the next beauty summit...the art of laser hair removal.

Again I must sadly admit that it was my mom who told me to buck up, grow up and take the leap...afterall the benefits were well worth the bumpy journey. So over a year later I'm here to report on the in's, out's and inbetween's of professional laser hair removal.

Cost: Yes the initial price tag can be a bit intimidating but if you do the math a $1400 Brazilian treatment will pay itself off in 14 months (assuming you got a monthly Brazilian wax at $100 a pop). In addition most spas will offer a discount if you purchase a package for 2 or more areas so it may be worth adding in a smaller, cheaper area like the upper lip.

Pain Level: Ok I'm not going to lie it hurts. Especially on those areas that are less meaty or are in bony, nerve packed region. To help reduce your discomfort you can ask your spa if they have numbing cream that you can topically apply 30 minutes before your treatment. It definitely helps but my technician has a theory that it actually interferes with the efficacy of the laser so it may take longer to see results. You can be more courageous and just take two Advil an hour before your appointment and work on your deep breathing, relaxation techniques which will come handy mid treatment. Oh and I'm guessing you want to know what kind of pain we are talking about...hmm just imagine being snapped by one of those super big/thick rubber bands.

Timing: When you sign up they will tell you that you only need 8 treatments max! Well they're wrong or just trying to be good salespeople. The reality is the average person will need more like 12+ treatments and even they will need bi-annual touch ups. You see your hair regrowth is very dependent on hormone fluctuations so things like pregnancy or just your natural changes can trigger a regrowth. That's why it's important to ask the spa's policy on number of the number of sessions your package covers. Ideally you should ask for a lifetime guarantee which allows you an unlimited number of sessions! (See the cost isn't looking so bad now!)

Bottom Line: It's worth it if you go into with the right expectations. Yes you will notice that your hair growth will slow down after just two sessions but it will take far more to be completely hair free. On the flip side when you compare it to the time, resources and inconvenience of the the waxing alternative you realize that this is a great bargain on all levels. Just be aware that once you start lasering you can only shave so there will be no more waxing or other barbaric form of hair removal in your future!

Usage tip: Do your research, ask questions (I'm always available to help) and set up an informational meeting with the facility to see if you like the vibe of the place (read: do your due diligence in checking the cleanliness of the place). Most importantly take your time. This is a big investment and you should make sure the rewards outweigh any fears.

The result: Soft, hair-free skin and more importantly no more mothly waxing appointments EVER!

Beachy Keen

From late night ice cream runs (I have a new found weakness for Haagen-Daez Caramel Corn but a Tasti-D always hits the spot!) to body flaunting shorts and minis (afterall all those hours spent at the gym should be appreciated!) there are so many great things about summer. I must admit my absolute favorite though is my beauty regimen “less is more” philosophy. The endearing Nyc humidity and heat is like a one-two punch that melts makeup, frizzes hair and deflates your morning get ready routine. My answer? Let you natural goddess shine! Switch out foundations for the tinted moisturizers. Skip the eye liner and in lieu give your skin a soft sun kissed glow with bronzing products. And those 5 minutes you shaved off your morning beauty regimen? Hit the snooze button one more time or better yet get some AM cuddle action!

Without question when it come to hair you have to have the same minimalist touch. There’s nothing more painful or torturous than a hair dryer or flat iron in 90+ degree weather! Luckily there’s nothing more sexy or enticing than lose, tousled summer beach waves. They beg you to come play and recall days spent surfside and night loungin campside. So it’s time to give your hair a break and trade in the gels, mousses, and heat activating milks for Fekkai Beach Waves. This marine water spray texturizes hair for that ocean inspired, piecey body. Sea kelp hydrates and locks in moisture so hair looks supple and feels soft. The icing on the cake? UV filters which protect hair from oxidizing UV rays which rob hair color of vitality and cause fading. And as your sitting at your desk wishing to be at the beach, catch a whiff of you hair...the coconut undertones will transport you to the beach.

Usage tip: On a damp or dry hair spritz focusing mid-length to ends. Each 3-4” section needs no more than 2-3 sprays then use your fingers to scrunch strands giving extra support for the waves. For extra thick, long or super straight hair you may need a bit more coaxing to get this look. I would recommend first setting damp hair with rollers and then spritzing with the Beach Waves.

The result: This look demystifies guys obsession with the girl next door…it spells low maintenance, fun loving but yet damn sexy.

Just One More!

I know what you're thinking. How many products can this girl have? She recommended over 10 products just for the pool/beach alone! She must be like one of those old women who lives in a shoebox stuffed with old trinkets, tokens and other useless mementos. Well... I will say that I do have a fair share of products BUT they are all essential (and discreetly stored in an organized manner!). So you too can make room for a couple more sun essentials but this time for your hair!

Yes sun can damage your hair, especially color treated hair. UV rays cause oxidation of the color molecules leading to fading and in the case of brunettes brassiness. If that's not enough the combo of sun, salt and or/chlorine (which is another color altering culprit) robs hair of essential moisture, weakening the overall structure and strength of hair. Therefore make a little extra room in your beach bag for Tela Guardian SPF 18, a natural, light-weight, leave-in hair milk. It protects hair with SPF and antioxidants while restoring moisture, nixing frizziness and improving manageability. Once your back indoors it is essential to wash your hair with a shampoo and conditioner/mask made specifically for post-sun care. Many professional, salon hair care brands like Redken or Phyto offer an after-sun range. My favorite is Kerastase Bain Apres-Soleil Shampoo, which gently washes out the above mentioned aggressors and purifies hair, and Masque UV Defense Active which replenishes and fortifies hair for silky soft and radiant tresses. Now your hair can stop being envious of your sun protection regimen for the skin!

Usage tip: To further protect hair (and your face!) always wear a hat. It shields and prevents UV damage and just one more fun accessory to throw into the mix!

The result: There will be hands who will long to run their fingers through those silky, shiny strands! Trust me!

Accessorize

One of the many things that I love about being a women is our god given right to accessorize. From bangles that dangle on every inch of our forearm to the plethora of head bands, we have an opportunity to dress up every aspect of our life. Let’s just take the multitude of options available for our “most needed” electronic devices. That blackberry or iPhone that’s responsible for finger and wrist issues? Oh yes, it has to be clothed with a decorated case at all times. The iPod? Don’t worry it has convertible holder that allows it be used 3 ways. The lap top? Did you see Goyard's carrying case? It’s a must have! And of course all of these essential items can’t be carried around without our favorite accessory of all…the handbag! So when it comes to sun protection it should come as no surprise that there are plenty of accessories to go around!

But like all things, we need a discerning eye to weed through the garbage and identify the must haves:

My Top 6 “Don’t Dream of Leaving Home Without It” Suncare Accessories

1. UVSunSense Bracelet: This wrist bling is takes the concept of adornment to the next level. An intuitive bracelet, this sun monitor identifies what SPF level you’ve applied and changes colors to indicate when you should be reapplying sun creen and when it’s time to head indoor. With this sun smart system there’s no reason you should ever end up looking or feeling like a cooked lobster.

2. Sun Guard Laundry Additive: Did you know that those festy UVA rays (the ones responsible for aging) can penetrate through glass and clothes? By washing your clothes with Sun Guard you infuse your clothes with an invisible shield that provides an ultraviolet protection factor (UPF) of 30 for up to 20 future washes.

3. Sun Protection Towelettes: These nifty on the go wipes make sun protection easy and fast. Try Supergoop! SPF 30 Sunscreen Swipes to give weightless protection all over (including those hard to reach places!). Formulated with physical blockers (I know you’re up with the suncare lingo since you read the last 2 posts), these wipes are safe for even the most sensitive skin. Now there’s really no excuse to not be protected!

4. Eye Cream: Your eye is the most fragile area with the thinnest skin found on your face so it needs a souped up protection to keep those pesky crow’s feet at bay. The problem is sunscreen formulations tend to be too irritating to this delicate area. That’s why I have fallen head over heels in love with the Shiseido Sun Protection Eye Cream SPF 32. Luxurious and sweet smelling this cream fortifies and protects the area most prone to premature aging.

5. Powder: So yes you put on the sunscreen and then the eye cream (see above) but why not give a little extra sun shielding oomph to the most sun suspetible areas like your nose or cheekbones. Mineral based loose powders like Peter Thomas Roth Instant Mineral SPF 45 allow you to dust on an added layer of invisible protection with physical blockers to prevent freckling, burning and spotting. Added bonus? This powder keeps your skin matte (no oil slicks for you!) and smooth.

Usage tip: Perhaps your new accessories will need a carrying case...I wonder what beach bag Goyrad has!

The result: Sun saviness with all the latest "it" accessories!

Best in Class

Have you noticed that we’ve become a “best” obsessed society. Everything we do, wear, consume, own or even believe in must be the absolute best. And so when the “best” e-reader (iPad-it does more than the rest) or Chanel lipstick (did you see the waitlists for Rouge Coco Mademoiselle?) launches we herd like brainwashed sheep into atrocious long lines often days before this “best” is even available to be the first to have the “best.” But I guess that’s just the way evolution has preprogrammed us. Supported by Darwinian theory of survival of the fittest we, like active hunters, seek out the best in class, so that we have the right tools and resources to be the best version of ourselves. So with that I would like to present to you the best in class suncare, itemized by your lifestyle, skin type and protection level. This way you will be armed with the “best” as you spend the holiday weekend poolside, beachside or bbqside.

Best in Class Suncare

Active: Coppertone Sport Continuous Spray SPF 70+ mists your body with a weightless veil of essential protection that resists water and sweat. Skin feels bare as you spike that volleyball.

Beach Bound: If you’re like me you hate the way sand and your sticky body seem to be magnets for one another. That’s why I love Neutrogena Ultra Sheer SPF 100. It’s virtually invisible, drying instantly while keeping UV damage at bay with their Helioplex complex of UV filters.

For the Kidos and the Family: I’m sure you read the last post where we covered the mildest yet most comprehensive sun protection so it should come as no surprise that I recommend Neutrogena Baby Lotion SPF 60. Yes I know your 3 year old is not a baby but this sunblock is formulated with physical filters that are naturally derived treating the skin as delicately as possible.

Sensitive Skin: You know the answer! We covered it last time!

Anti-Aging: It’s essential that your suncare care not only has broadspecturm protection but that is also fortified with super power antioxidants like vitamins C and E to protect skin from free radical damage. I recommend the Neutrogena Spectrum+ range with offerings for the face and body or La Roche Posay Anthelios 60 available in a fluid (so amazing!), lotion or milk.

Rolls Royce of Sun Protection: Available only abroad (and in some cases a stone throw away in Canada) the La Roche Posay Anthelios XL SPF 50+ is one of the most comprehensive, truly full spectrum protection sunscreens I’ve seen. An insider favorite, many European bound travelers end up smuggling and stockpiling this sun essential in their luggage. You can find it online through Canadian pharmacies.

Usage tip: Remember the 5 essentials rules! They should always be your sun mantra.

The result: Flawless, discerning protection custom chosen for you! I wish you, your family and friends a Happy 4th of July! Enjoy…but remember the sunscreen!

Green SPF

I can't tell you how tired I'm of reading yet another article about some sort of chemical ingredient causing cancer, severe allergic reactions or even fetal deformities. It seems like there's nothing left we can eat, drink, rub on ourselves, wash our clothes or even paint our houses with without worrying about the consequences. So the 15 year double digit growth of organic and natural products only makes sense in this environment. Despite recessions, budget cuts and trading down consumerism the natural and organic sector has thrived not because it's trendy but because there's a validity behind it...it's safer, better for you and for the environment. Luckily when it comes to sunscreen there is a widely available natural alternative.

Often referred to as organic filters, zinc oxide and titanium dioxide are the greener, more natural version of UV protection. Naturally derived and mineral based, these filters are used in "sunblocks" versus "sunscreen." Notice the difference! Sunscreens are made up of chemical filters (like avobenzone, octocrylene, etc) that absorb UV light and deactivate it from it's destructive nature. Sunblocks are actual physical blockers that act like a shield on the skin prohibiting UVA and UVB rays from penetrating the skin's surface. Providing full spectrum protection against all UV wavelengths these filters act as a wall sitting on the skin's surface. Therefore they are not absorbed into the epidermis making them ideal for sensitive skin and kids/babies. No breakouts, no allergic reactions just pure protection. That's probably why Neutrogena Sensitive Skin SPF 60+ Sunblock is made with "Puresceen technology" aka titanium dioxide and zinc oxide. Years ago these sunblocks use to have a heavy white residue (remember the life guards?) but thanks to technology innovation these filters have become micronized to be as weightless and sheer as chemical sunscreens. For this invisible coverage also try the new Skinceuticals Sheer Physical UV Defense SPF 50 designed to protect needy skin made ultra susceptible by cosmetic work like peels and lasers.

Usage tip: Sunblocks can be wiped off more easily by water and sweat so I would recommend reapply every 60 to 90 minutes especially if you're spending a lot of time in the pool or ocean.

The result: Natural broadspectrum protection for even the most sensitive or green oriented skin!

No Nonesense

There are some topics that are just so juicy they ooze sexiness, like the new come hither mascara or the cleavage enhancing bronzing technique...and then there are the other subject matters. Topics not as enticing or delicious but equally if not more important, like sun protection, an apt subject matter for the summer season and upcoming 4th of July holiday. So for the next few posts we will focus on the ins, outs and in-betweens of suncare. It won’t be juicy (think grade school sex ed vs experiential learning) but at least you will be become an expert in properly protecting yourself from harmful UV rays. With the incidence of melanoma not only on the rise but higher than the number of new cases of breast, prostate, lung and colon cancer combined there’s no excuse in not being suncare savvy.

So to ease into the pain I thought it might be beneficial to start with the top 5 things you need to know about sun protection. Then in the coming posts we will cover the products, newest technologies and even techniques/tips to take your protection to the next level.

Suncare 101:

1.What does SPF mean?
SPF=Sun protection factor and is an indicator of how much UV exposure your skin can tolerate before burning while wearing sunscreen versus not being protected at all. So the higher the SPF the greater the shield. Some people like to do creative math and assume that if they're skin can tolerate 10 minutes of sun before burning then an SPF 50 will allow them to stay out for 500 minutes (10 x50). Unfortunately what this equation doesn't consider is the intensity of the UV rays. This is of course dependent on time (sun is always strongest around 2pm) location (UV rays are stronger in higher elevations and places closer to the equator). Bottom line? Apply sunscreen (an SPF 30 at a minimum but I recommend at least a 50).

2. How do I use it?

The greatest challenge is improper application. Often people are too stingy in the amount they apply so an SPF 50 becomes more like a 12. Here's the rule of thumb you should always follow. Apply sunscreen 20 minutes before going outside allowing the filters to set in and protect. Then you must reapply every 1-2 hours during the entire duration you are outside. Don't be cheap! Trust me the cost of lasering off suspicious moles is much pricier than a bottle of sunscreen. Always apply a shot glass full of sunscreen to your body and a nickle size to your face.

3. I think I might be Vitamin D deficient so can I skip the SPF?

All I can say is seriously?! If you want to argue your way out of this (which is impossible) try a more legitimate reasoning. The reality is you only need 10 minutes of sun to synthesize vitamin D. Chances are that you already get this during your daily outside time while running errands in a skirt or t-shirt (of course your face is still protected with a moisturizer plus SPF because sun exposure on legs or arms during those 10 minutes is all that's needed!).

4. Will sunscreens completely block photoaging (premature aging caused by the sun)?

The reality is there is no single sunscreen on the market that blocks all UVA and UVB and shields skin against infrared rays (made primarily from sun's heat). Instead boost your sun protection with antioxidants that help block any escaped UV or infrared damage. Layer an antioxidant-rich serum under your sunscreen or look for SPF's that are formulated with vitamin E like Neutrogena's new Spectrum. Make sure that your sunscreen does not include any vitamin A which has been found to become carcinogenic when exposed to sun.

5. I rarely burn when I'm in the sun so it must mean I'm ok using a lower or no SPF, right?

WRONG! Even that sun kissed tan of yours spells UV damage. Understand that tanning is your skin's natural defense mechanism to protect itself from sun damage. As you sit in the sun your skin starts to produce more melanin (pigment) which in turn form a barrier within the skin trying to shield the dermis (skin's deeper layer) from the harmful UV rays.

Usage tip: Something tells me that you have any enough tips from all the above. The only other things I can repeat for the millionth time is that this is not a joke. Melanoma is real and it can kill.

The result: Younger, healthier skin compliments of your newly acquired sun IQ.

Thermal Instincts

There are certain things in life that provide comfort and security...mom's cooking, an embrace, perhaps it may even be the feeling of freshly cut grass between your toes. For me the greatest sense of content and peace is found in the calming feeling of water. From enticing waves, to droplets of rain there's a therapeutic rush, perhaps that's why I've come to love scuba diving (who knew?!). But beyond the sensorial the benefits of water for mind, body and spirit have long been documented. From thermal baths to Turkish hamam's, water has a transforming restorative and healing power. Unfortunately we don't all have the time, location or resources to indulge in these treatments which is why like all great things I'm grateful for the bottled version readily at your disposal.

Water mists. An easily transporable alternative available to your morning, midday or night that harnesses the power of these nourishing spring waters. La Roche Posay and Avene both offer Thermal Spring Water mists containing soothing, softening waters concentrated in essential minerals, vitamins and antioxidants like Selenium. Clinically proven to treat and soothe even the most sensitive and needy skin from eczema to rosacea these super fine mists refresh, tone and calm skin. They're a great way to rehydrate and awaken skin from the midday slump or help set your makeup! The latter point being quite key. Ask any makeup artist and they will tell you the golden rule to help your makeup last: after applying all your makeup gently mist your face with these thermal waters to help lock it in. Simply mist and let the water the dry. And at the very least each time I spray I'm transported to that place that brings me the greatest sense of contentment.

Usage tip: Besides the reinvigorating, moisturizing or helping set your makeup, I love storing these mists in the fridge. Then on a hot summer day I take it out and spray my face. Instantly I'm cooled, energized and refreshed!

The result: The world's most fundamental element, let it transform and heal your skin anywhere, anytime.

Lipstick Effect

There’s effects that defy science, rational and reason. They surpass the constraints of textbooks, usurping any mathematical equation and yet they persist. Take for example the dating theory “you need a date to get a date.” It’s the infallible way how one scheduled date suddenly snowballs into multiple suitors. Or take the Calvin Klein Obsession men’s cologne effect. Zookeepers at the Bronx Zoo found that Jaguars liked to lick, kiss, rub and linger near anything sprayed with the cologne versus other fragrances. (Attention male readers: women are more discerning than these cats so don’t shower yourself in this cologne hoping for any attraction!). In previous economic downturns, researcher identified the lipstick effect: a double digit rise in lipstick sales while other beauty products experienced a downturn. The logic economists argued was that lipsticks were a low cost item that instantly made women feel better...that was of course until the current recession when the lipstick effect just wore off.

Well thanks to the man responsible for bringing sexy back in the ‘90’s (no it’s not JT!), we might experience a new lipstick effect otherwise known as the Tom Ford Private Blend Lip Color Collection. Rich colors, creamy textures and classically sophisticated packaging will set your heart a flutter! Launched on June 1^st this 12 shade collection has something for every lady. From a feminine, pinkish nude aptly called Blush Nude to a more vampy, sexy Black Orchid, each lipstick will envelope your lips with a nurturing veil of soja seed extract, Brazilian murumuru butter and chamomilla flower oil. Made with intense color pigments the color goes on the way you would expect and stays true hours later. If that’s enough the lipsticks are housed in an all ivory case gilded with gold accents (would you expect anything else from the man responsible for those iconic sunglasses?). Now I know the price tag is hefty at a cool $45 (available at Saks, Neiman’s and Bergdorf) but you deserve to treat yourself every once in awhile and who knows the Tom Ford lipstick effect could equal Hollywood smooch sessions and perhaps even a promotion thanks to your stellar performance on the client presentation!

Usage tip: Make sure when you visit the beauty counter to really spend some time with the shades. Be realistic about the colors you gravitate toward and what your comfort level is with hue intensity. Think of this as an investment and you deserve great returns.

The result: Remember what Gucci under Tom Ford did for your wardrobe? Then imagine what he can do for your lips!

Simple Math

Here’s a confession….I’m a nerd. I think in terms of equations, numbers and algorithms. Years after my schooling the Pythagorean theorem (remember a2 + b2 = c 2 for triangles?) still makes perfect sense to me. I know you’re wondering what the hell this has to do with beauty but hang in there with me. So let’s move this mathematical thinking to our perception of beauty. What + what = radiant, youthful, healthy skin? I will just toss out a few ideas and you tell me which sounds right. Luminous? Dewy? Hydrated? Energized? Remember option D on the multiple choice tests which standed for “all the above” and it was always the right answer. Well this time is no exception. So the next part of this multi-step math problem is what universal product provides these elements?

Answer: MAC Strobe Cream! This one stop product rivals any algorithm or theorem. Supercharged with potent botanicals and vitamins including my all around favorite, a power shot of green tea, this moisturizer/luminizer/clarifier (it pretty much does everything) revives dull, fatigued skin. Delivering hydration and continuous antioxidant protection this multi-tasker instantly illuminates skin with iridescent particles while bolstering skin's own defense system for longterm radiance. Mix with your AM moisturizer (if you're not a foundation wearer) or add as a booster to your foundation to give your skin an freshening. Notice as the iridescent particles interact with all types of light to diffuse imperfections and energize skin. This is unquestionably the magic marker that hides the long night you may have had and gives your skin much needed tlc with a side of instant gratification.

Usage tip: For an extra awakening/energizing effect, store the cream in your fridge. Then when you apply the cool temperature will immediately tighten skin and restore your rosy glow. Use the cream to help highlight your features by applying to the bridge of your nose, above your brow bone, along the line of your upper lip and along your cheek bones.

The result: Think of this as the morning latte or espresso for your skin!

Eating Your Cake

What do you think of the term "fake it till you make it?" You see I've never been a person to fake anything...I've always come from the school of thought that it's the real thing or nothing (afterall I think we all know how to spot the fake Louis' and Cartier's). But ever so often there comes a time where the most prideful of us need to bend our strong convictions for that exception. In this case the exception would be tanning. The reality is we all love that bronze beach goddess color but know the hazards of tanning (wrinkles, sun spots, sagging, let me know when you get the picture). But luckily shade patrol doesn't equal a chalky white color. With the plethora of self-tanning products available an enviable sun inspired glow is just a bottle away. The key? Your technique. Like all things there's a right way and wrong way of doing it.

How to Fake a Natural Tan

1. Exfoliate! This helps remove dead skin cells for an even base.

2. After towel drying apply a thin layer of body moisturizer paying special attention to drier areas like the elbows.

3. My favorite self tanner is St. Tropez Self Tan Bronzing Lotion because it gives a true "bronzed" color versus the orangey tinge more often achieved through self tanners. A word to the wise, this lotion will give your skin a deep tan so if you are fairer or want more control over the color I suggest St. Tropez Gradual Tan Mousse. The mousse has a lower amount of DHA (the molecule which interacts with your skin to develop the color) so the tanning effect will be more mild. Apply the product from the bottom up starting at your legs and working up to your chest and arms. Smooth onto skin and apply with long, firm strokes. Avoid rubbing in which could lead to streakiness or darker spots. Systematically apply making sure to never miss a spot (which includes gently applying to tops of feet and back of hands) and blend carefully. Remember the goal is to look sun kissed so no bare spots! Side note: I never like to apply self tanner to my face...rather I think this is an effect better left to makeup. That way you can contour, define and bronze in a controlled manner. We will cover this soon.

4. Don't put any clothes on for at least 10 minutes to let the product properly dry and when you do finally clothe avoid whites which could show some rub off of the tanning product. Shower 4 hours later at which time your bronze color should be fully developed.

Usage tip: If you do end up with streakiness or dark spots take a lemon and gently rub it over the area to help smooth out the color. Apply the self tanning lotion once a week or the mousse every other day to maintain your color. If you want to deepen the tan apply more frequently.

The result: Bronze goddess sans the sun induced wrinkles and age spots...I think they call that having your cake and eating it too!

Certified Discreteness

Don’t you just love to keep people guessing? In the overly exposed, reality show centric society we’ve become it seems only normal that the stranger in the Starbucks line should know about that weird rash you can’t seem to get rid of and how your match.com profile is getting more hits than the latest celeb sex video (note to everyone please maintain your spa voices when you’re on the phone in public places including the train, elevator and coffee lines….no one really cares to hear about your problems). I think it’s time for a countermovement: something discreet yet sinful, covert yet headturningly intriguing. And what better place to start this coyness than with your lips.

Think an egg shaped sphere that rivals any new I-gadget, contouring perfectly to hands with the softest touch. Donned in the runway’s Spring/Summer pastel colors, it could be more of an accessory than a lip treatment. I’m of course referring to the eos (standing for evolution of smooth) Smooth Sphere Lip Balm. Available in 4 mouth watering flavors (cause afterall we do taste our lip products), the perfectly round balm snuggles the lips enveloping it with rich, emollient butters (shea) and oils (coconut, olive and jojoba) for thirst quenching essential moisture. Lips transform from crackled and dehydrated to soft, pillowy smoothness. Certified organic (with the exception of the newest addition, the Lemon Drop with SPF 15), these paraben- and petrochemical-free will make even the most skeptical fall head over heels in love (just be prepared to hear where’s that other lip balm…you know that cool, round one?). And just to keep you guessing, I saved the best part for last at $3.49 a pop you not only need to buy every flavor (I love the Summer Fruit) but need one for every essential place (your bag, car, desk, nightstand).

Usage tip: If you like to apply a lipstick for color layer this lip balm under it to reap the benefits of both worlds. Apply when lips feel dry and at the very least every AM and PM to nurture your puckers.

The result: Your lips will never feel so smooth, so soft, so voluptuous but I never kiss and tell!

Opal

There are certain statements or questions that simply do not warrant an answer under any circumstances. My all-time favorite is when people tell you how tired you look. How do you even respond to that? “Thanks?!” One of the telltale signs of fatigue is under eye bagginess/puffiness. It’s a quick indicator that for some reason or another overstretched with responsibilities and under indexed on tlc. The beauty of beauty? (Catchy, huh?) We always have a fun, techy gadget or product to save the day.

Just off their blockbuster launch of the Sonic Care Cleansing Systems, Clarisonic has introduced a new offering but this time for your eyes. The Opal, cleverly shaped like a luxurious stone begging for you to touch it, is comprised of two parts. The top, if you will, contains their proprietary Anti-Aging Sea Serum and is applied first to the eye area. The bottom contains a small round head that when turned on gently vibrates as you move it around the eye bag area. Helping the serum penetrate into the skin, the sonic massage helps boost circulation to reduce puffiness while giving your eyes a pampering soothing experience. Think of it as a massage for the eye area. Between the serum and the sonic head, the eye area is hydrated, firmer and depuffed. Is it worth the $245 price tag (by the way? I’m not so sure…you can buy one of the many eye rollers on the market for a fraction of the price and get the same benefit. But I will say the micro vibrations were quite a treat for my eyes, it was a calming pre-sleeping treat (and I got the most skeptical person to agree)!

Usage tip: Try on clean eyes before applying your eye cream. Be careful to not use it around the eye socket, a vibrating eye ball is good only for the horror or sci-fi books. Follow with an eye cream. It’s not emollient enough to hydrate the eye area.

The result: Bags be gone! Take that Ms. You Look So Tired!

Eavesdropping

I'm all about respecting people's privacy and allowing for personal space, a trait that has been groomed by my time as a New Yorker where space is a rare commodity and rude/unaware people seem to be abundant (please note it is not ok to jam your yoga mat on top of others just cause you showed up late!). But every so often something salacious happens that you simply cannot help yourself and you end up succumbing to the eavesdropping temptation. Case in point as I walked home from my jog yesterday a couple were walking their dogs and the wife was letting her husband have it..."Why don't you help a bit more? You know I haven't gotten more than 5 hours of sleep since Monday! And frankly it's making me look any younger so if I look old it's all your fault!"

While I found her ease to publicly display her martial problems on a busy intersection a bit interesting, I understand where she's coming from (side note: I'm known to be a bit of a sleeper myself. Read: don't try to deal with me unless I've gotten my 8.5 hours of sleep), there's a significant amount of validity to what she's saying. It is during the sleeping hours that your body has a change to repair, recover and regenerate. That's why it's called beauty sleep. While you're off dreaming about Mr. Right and the beautiful kids you will have your body is repairing sun (photo) induced DNA damage, synthesizing essential proteins such as elastin and collagen and treating any inflammation (ie. breakouts). And in case you haven't heard you need between 7-8 hours of zzz's nightly no ifs, ands or butts. Have trouble sleeping? Try spraying some lavender essential oil on your pillow (my go to choice) or lull your body into sleep mode with a relaxing bath or a cup of warm milk and honey (it really works). If plump, smooth, wrinkle-free skin isn't enough of an inspiration to hit the sack, studies show that when you get less than 7 hours of sleep your body produces more of the stress hormone, cortisol, which encourages your body to store fat leading to weight gain...do I see you heading to bed?

Usage tip: There's nothing more unattractive than pillow lines that can cause collagen and elastin breakdown leading to wrinkles. Opt for silk pillowcases that help skin retain moisture, leave hair tangle free and skin lineless!

The result: Look in the mirror the next time you get a good nights rest...your skin is plump, radiant and youthful! This is the cheapest tool in your anti-aging regimen!

Flawless Inspiration

There are certain rituals, end of the day destressors if you will, that we eagerly look forward to. Regardless of how many times your boss says "we should do this" instead of what she really means ("you need to take care of this") you count on these self-soothing acts. For me it's the few moments I spend lovingly admiring my new orchid plant. With 8 blooms and 5 on the way, I watch mesmerized by the pristine white petals glistening like fresh snow and the perfect asymmetry right down to its reproductive organs (no smirking!). The truth of the matter is we are a society obsessed and appreciative of flawless perfection. We want our faces plump like a babies, smooth like silk and radiantly even toned like the orchid petal.

Here's the reality: a funny thing called aging and environmental/lifestyle aggressors makes this a daunting task. Any cellular facial injury from photodamage (sun exposure) to a breakout can leave spots or hyperpigmentation on your skin. The cruel irony? Studies have shown that these skin discolorations can add up to 10 years on your perceived age. So the moral of the story is skin needs to be luminously uniform. Up until recently there weren't too many safe efficacious options. The gold standard was bleaching products with hydroquinone, an ingredient linked to cancer. This is until Skinceutical developed their Pigment Regulator. Working three ways, this treatment lightens existing hyperpigmentation while shielding skin from future spots. Now these discolorations are a result of melanin, skin pigmentation molecules, clusters so the Regulator blocks your skin from producing excess melanin (preventative), prohibits it from travelling to skin surface (preventative) and breaks up clusters (corrective). Clinically tested against the derm lightening choice (4% hydroquinone) this miracle worker was found to be as effective in reducing hyperpigmentation. Now that's results! With kojic acid, emblica (otherwise known as Indian Gooseberry) and an exfoliating blend; discolorations are corrected, skin radiates with even luminosity.

Usage tip: Use nightly after you cleanse and tone but before you moisturize. Remember the layering rule: apply products in order of viscosity from the thinnest to the thickest consistency. If you have a lot of discolorations target just those areas otherwise you can apply all over the face for an overall brightening effect.

The result: 10 years younger and as flawless as an orchid!

Blow

The two most amazing things about a vacation are: one the selfish opportunity to pamper oneself and two the unique ability to uncover new things. From new foods to adventurous experiences the things you can come across during your time off can be endless. On a recent trip to LA my resourceful sis decided our morning bonding time could consist more than just brunch and girl chat. She upped the ante and took me to what can only be described as heaven…for my hair!

Dry Bar new to the Brentwood area is a one stop blowout haven. Don’t get confused, this sleek white, trendy yet comfortable salon doesn’t offer cuts, colors or anything in between. They only do one thing and they do it right…long lasting, movie quality blowouts! Chose your blowout style from one of the five enticing bar options: Straight Up (the signature), Mai Tai (messy and beachy), Southern Comfort (lots of volume), Cosmopolitan (loose curls) and Manhattan (sleek and smooth). Then sit back as your hair is washed, expertly styled in under 30 minutes! And oh did I mention it’s only $35?! Yes you read that right! So as you sip the cucumber infused water and catch up on your emails or sinfully take a mental break with the latest US magazine issue your hair is transformed from so-so to head turning, "I just appeared in the latest Kerastase ad!" The best part is the blowouts last 3 days so it’s one less thing for you to worry about. All I can tell you is if I lived in LA I would be there for a standing weekly appointment (afterall a girl has gotta pamper herself). Other major cities have similar concept salons. In NYC check out the original, Blow. Downside: price varies from $40-60 based on length or texture. In SF take advantage of the newly opened Blo (cost is around $33).

Usage tip: Book in advance. This place is more popular than the local Peet’s Coffee!

The result: Perfect for date night or just cause, this quickie will take your hair to the next level.